Finding Contentment in all Circumstances-A Message for Dads (& Moms)

Former Presidential Advisor, Arthur Schlessinger Jr., stated, “Our society is characterized by inextinguishable discontent.”  Wow! It’s true, isn’t it? 

We long for fulfillment but we search for it in all the wrong places.  We scrimp and save to buy the new car, but the new car smell goes away. We sacrifice for the new home in the upscale neighborhood, but if we’re not careful, what we own soon begins to own us.  The “stuff” we seek doesn’t bring the satisfaction we long for. 

Solomon, the wisest man who ever lived and the richest man of his time wrote this in Ecclesiastes 7:29, “God made mankind upright, but man has gone in search of many schemes.”  We fill our lives with many schemes to bring us happiness, yet I submit that there is a vast difference between happiness and joy.  Happiness depends upon “happenings” or circumstances.  Joy is a deep abiding understanding that God is in charge, and He will work all things out for good for those who love Him no matter what the circumstances (Romans 8:28).  

The Apostle Paul teaches us how to find the joyful life we seek in the book of Philippians.  Chapter four opens with him thanking the church in Philippi for their concern and care for him.  But he informs them, “I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty.  I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.” Then he caps off his proclamation with this profound statement, “I can do all things through him (Christ) who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:11-13). 

The word “content” in this section of scripture is the Greek word “autarkia.”  It means sufficiency.  Paul found his sufficiency in Christ. Being in the center of God’s will brought contentment and satisfaction.  

Even though the Rolling Stones told us that we “can’t get no satisfaction,” Paul’s words dispute their claims.  

The Apostle didn’t decide God was his sufficiency while he was living in the lap of luxury being fanned by beautiful people and eating fresh grapes that were freely supplied to him. He wrote these words from prison! His contentment wasn’t dependent on his circumstances; he sought his satisfaction in his sovereign Savior. A few verses later he proclaims to all who will listen, “God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus” Philippians 4:19. 

Paul trusted God to provide.  As I learn to do the same, I have formed the habit of journaling my Monumental Moments, those times when God provides something extraordinary that I really need it at the time. In the Old Testament when God spoke to His followers or provided for them in the wilderness, they erected a monument to commemorate the event. Then all who passed could acknowledge God’s goodness.  I make it a point to record God’s actions on my behalf, and I review past events and blessings when I record recent ones. 

Monumental Moments happen when a check comes in the mail for just the amount that I am behind in paying the bills.  They are those moments when a friend you haven’t heard from in a while calls to tell you she felt led to pray for you the same day you get news of your dad’s cancer.  Monumental Moments occur when after a weary week of parenting, one of your kids says something profound about God or life or you. I find recording the work of God in my life builds my confidence that He will continue to take care of me.  Try it and see if it doesn’t build your faith.  I sit down once a week and reflect back on the week’s events and acknowledge God’s hand of provision.  It helps me know like the Apostle Paul that God is my sufficiency and that makes me happy and joyful at the same time! 

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